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We are starting "wedding" planning right now but I'm a little confused as to if I should really call it a wedding or not. My husband and I had a court house "wedding" with our immediate family members and we did pictures and than we all went out for...

The best man my fiancée's was going to choose has passed away, he doesn't want to replace him, what are some ideas to help bring him into the wedding.