Activity for Jamie

I'm getting married on Saturday and I've been trying for weeks to think of the perfect gift for my parents. They have done so much. I took my mom to Nashville for her bday and as a thank you. But my dad is doing so much for me that I want to do...

My DJ and the Photo booth attendant both had the question if we were offering them a plate. Am I supposed to do this? Am I rude if I put no? And if I offer to one do I have to do both? Especially the photo booth attendant because I was planning on...