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2801 days agoMy FH has 3 kids. I have 2. He doesn't like the idea of the family vows and the kids say they don't want to be embarrassed by having to speak. I thought of a sand unity vase but no one seems to like that idea either. Are there any meaningful ways to...
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2806 days agoHow many brides are waiting until after the wedding to start living with your FH? I am 43 and FH is 44. We are both divorced and we both have young kids (8, 11, 13, 14). 3 are his 1 is mine (13). We have been together close to 3 years now. Engaged...
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2808 days agoIs anyone getting their FH's wedding band engraved? I am out of touch. My last wedding was in 1997 and it was almost expected that you have the band engraved. I'm leaning toward engraving this go round but I'm looking for ideas. I am drawing a blank...
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2812 days agoIs anyone's FH wearing a Hawaiian shirt for the ceremony? If so, what are your feelings about it? I'm a but bothered but it's just his style. FH doesn't want to dress up. He wears a HS at least 2-3x a week as it is. Ceremony is at a private residence...
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2816 days agoI finished doing laundry this afternoon and FH is out running errands so I decided to try on my wedding dress. Hair and makeup courtesy of me ( haha or the lack there of) Anyone else do this. I can't have it altered until next year so it is saggy...
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2817 days agoThis may be a dumb question, but is there some stigma to the bride seeing what her FH is wearing for the wedding beforehand? Kinda like not showing FH the dress before the wedding? FH wants me to give him opinions on some of his choices. He refuses...
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2819 days agoHow many people have done pre-marital counseling? My FH and I are going for our first session tomorrow. We are both divorced and we see the value in individual counseling. We are hoping that couples counseling will be helpful too. I am thinking one...
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2823 days agoWe are selecting times with the officiant. I want an early wedding with a luncheon following. We are looking at 11, 12, or 1 for the wedding. I'd like the meal to follow the ceremony but I don't want folks to be starving waiting for the food to be...
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2826 days agoIt has been 19 years since I planned a wedding and a lot has changed. Is it appropriate or expected to include preferred dress style on the invite? If so how should I phrase it to not offend? We are planning a casual destination wedding for 11am at a...
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2836 days agoMy wedding is in July 2017. This isn't a first wedding for either of us. The last time I planned a wedding was in 1997 and there was no internet. I am super excited but I don't want to turn into a bridezila. I have the venue ( a private mansion in...