Activity for Nakita

My wedding is in the early part of May it is a very casual wedding wondering would it be tacky to do bbq buffet

So I my fiance was in charge of picking our reception menu he chose baked chicken, fried chicken mac n cheese, green beans and rolls but I feel like we need pne more meat and sude any suggestions

So my Dad hired me a caterer today and need a few ideas on what I should serve want to come up with some ideas to combine with caterer want baked chicken as a main meat mostocciolli as a main dish also one other meat and 3 sides that I could have...

Trying to figure out what food menu to have for wedding I would like to have baked chicken as one of my main dishes but cant seem to think of one other meat a pasta and three sides

Wondering what kind of food should I serve at reception it's on a Sunday and Reception will only be 3 hours long

I am trying to figure out would it be tacky to have a ipod playing our wedding music and have someone in my family control it instead of having a dj because my guest list is only about 50 guests

My Wedding and Reception is at the same location in the same room and ceremony will be about 15 minutes long 3pm-3:15 pm so reception will be from 4pm-7pm so im trying to figure should I do first dance and father daughter dance before or after...