Activity for Amber

We are trying to limit guests to under 200. Both our family's are big so we plan on just family and close friends to ceremony and dinner and of course dance. For friends we are not super close with will be invited to dance only which is about 70...

Any suggestions on what age is too old for flower girls or ring bearers. I keep debating in my head ways to include all of mine and future HB nieces and nephews. Total of 3 Niece's and 5 nephews. Suggestions anyone. The oldest girl will be 12 which I...