Activity for Ginger

I want a real wedding my choses not mom inlawzilla..I plan to have a ceremony complete with white dress long train. Lots of food, dj.. anyone else doing renewal.. I want a candy buffet it's cute.. what should I do for cake or cupcakes.. ideas ladies....

We are planning a vow renewal.. 25 years.. I want flowers , I have a big dress with train.. open to ideas on wording for invites..places for flower girl dresses for a great price ect.. best places for candy buffet items.. my grandkids will adore...