Activity for Kim

I want to know what is the best route to go as far as engagement party and wedding invitations? Is it best to go simple not expensive or go with the theme of the wedding?

I am trying to stay positive. I have had a few people do my hair trials but the waves won't stay. Does anyone know someone who does finger waves in Sacramento?

Here is pic, what do your veils or head accessories look like? Wedding is in 8 days!