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We are looking to have a rustic glam wedding. Below are some pictures of what we were thinking. Lights hanging around a barn and a fall season. Anyone know of any good venues for upstate NY near Rochester that are a barn atmosphere? I am sort of...

We are in the VERY early stages of planning. I really am struggling choosing my wedding colors. I am in love with neutrals but too many of them. Below is a list of neutral colors I am considering for the wedding... Can anyone help me narrow it down...