Activity for Eve

Need advice! I have 119 days till my wedding and still have so much left to plan and do, how did y'all remain stress free?

I'm five foot six roughly a hundred lbs and I want to wear a ballgown but I'm afraid I'll be swallowed by it? So for all you other extremely small ladies what did you wear? I need ideas!

I'm in the San Antonio/San Marcos TX area and my fiance and I are looking for a pretty outdoors place to take our photos. Anyone around here know of any parks or lakes or maybe a field for a rustic look?