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Why are there so many negative thoughts around not having a bar at a wedding?

So I love my family and my sister and all that jazz, but I'm not sure how to incorporate her into the wedding. My 9 yr old sister has already said she didn't want to be in my wedding. But I'm not sure how to deal with the other sister. She'll be 17...

There has never been an actually wedding in my family for at least 30 years, and I have no idea on what to do at this point. I would love some tips and ideas on a timeline for this far ahead