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My fiancé and I are both females and plan on dancing with both of our mother's at the same time. Looking for good song ideas. Please no rude comments.

When we get married....should my fiancé wear her engagement ring and then I put on her wedding band? Or...should she wear nothing and I put them both on together??

Okay I need some advice!! I come from a big hispanic family. My fiancé and I would prefer to not accommodate children. Only from our immediate family. How would we say that in a nice way on the invites?? Also how do you prevent guests from bringing...