Activity for Samantha

I'm wondering if anyone has any experience with hiring someone to serve your own food you purchase. We're having a wedding of less than 45 people and are planning our own meals to serve, but I'm wondering what other people's experience is with...

My fiancé and I are getting married next year, he has a hyphenated last name. We want to both just have one of his hyphenated names when we get married. My questions is - is there a simple way for us to simultaneously change out last name together...