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My fiancé and I want to write our own vows, but we aren't sure how to place them in the ceremony. Do we still do the "...for better or worse, in sickness..."?

I am debating wether or not to cut the cake at the reception for the guests. I'm from Panama and we don't cut it there except for the bride and groom, but I'm getting married in Texas. Would it be bettet to cut it for the guests or is okay not to? Do...

I want my reception to be outside but they tell me there are fire ants. Will they really be a problem? Could we spray the ground and give Off to the guests maybe?