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I love my parents. They just were never the greatest with money. Do any other ladies have the joyous struggle of having to pay for their own wedding. I am honestly jealous reading some of these discussions seeing "my parents are paying for this and...

Should your bridemaids pay for their wedding dresses or is supposed to be the couples duty? I love my girls but this is alot of money I dont want to spend especially because I know it's customary to buy your bridemaids gifts. Am I being cheap?

Venues are so expensive! How much should a venue cost reasonably? Would it be better to get a venue that comes with catering or is separate? I am so confused and my wallet is crying! I am so new to this and I have no idea the difference between...