Activity for Brittany

We are having a brunch reception with a buffet for our guests. Do we need a menu card? Should we post the menu near the bar (during cocktail hour) instead? As greedy as this sounds, I don't want to spend more money if we don't have to. I'm just...

Is it outdated to have wedding programs. My friend said she had at least 75 left over from her wedding. Do people really care about who is in the wedding and the order of events? We have a wedding website with all this information.

What are your groomsmen wearing? Tuxedos or suits? I think we could go either way so I don't know which to do. Honestly I'm not sure I can even tell the difference but don't want a fashion faux pas haha. It's a daytime wedding at a country club...