Activity for Ashley

Hi ladies!! My fiancé and I are having the hardest time choosing a song for our first dance. so far we just know that we want an older song from the 50s or 60s or 70s and it can be slow or upbeat since we will take dance lessons before the wedding....

I am wondering what other brides are doing in this situation. We are having a dessert table as well as a wedding cake. Do I get a big enough cake to feed every guest (175) or do we get a smaller cake since some people might go for the other desserts...