Activity for Amanda

I'm on a tight budget for wedding and I was just wondering...is it rude to have bridesmaids pay for their own dresses. The ones I picked are $134. That includes their short red dress, w/ black sash, and black peek-a-boo slip. I want suggestions...

First one is from my senior year of high school almost 20 years ago. I was short, thin as a toothpick, no curves to be thought of. I thought I had my life all planned out. Marry my high school sweetheart. Little did I know I would take a different...