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So I have been engaged a year but haven't really bought anything till recently because my wedding isn't till October. I have started to buy stuff now. Did you guys buy a lot in the beginning or later? I am trying to figure out should i start buying...

Okay I have searched all over the web and found nothing really! I am trying to make a list what is everything I need to buy. Flower girl basket, Center piece things, Dress, Sparklers, what else? Anyone who has been married just a list of whats...

What are the best items to get from etsy? What items have y'all got? I found a really cute cake topper and shoes. Wondering if should order more from online or if best to buy in store so can see it first.