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After all the planning, all the blood, sweat and tears (sometimes literally!), what is the lingering fear that keeps you up at night, invades your dreams, and makes you neurotic about all the little things you CAN control? For me, it's that my family...

My fiancee and I are 40 (first marriage each). We are getting married in July, when it finally stops raining here in Oregon and we are blessed with beautiful sunny skies and 70 degree weather. We estimate about 120 of our invited guests will be...