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My fiance' and I have chosen deep red (blood red as he says) and either white or black for our wedding colors. How do we distinguish between the groom and his men??

Since before my fiance proposed, I have been having trouble thinking about who my bridesmaids were. I finally think I can handle that difficulty, but now I have no idea who to put in the lead. My choices are between my two best friends (my college...