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We are on a very tight budget and paying for this wedding on our own it is a destination wedding but 55 people are still attending? Do I do a rehearsal dinner for that many at a cheaper place or do I just do the wedding party? I also thought of just...

We are hiring an awesome photographer and he offers videography too but it's out of our budget! Is there anyone who can reassure me it is totally okay with not having a videographer or am I really missing out?

What is everyone's something blue?