Activity for Mrs. Soon to be Jefferson

I have a ball gown but for some reason I cant think what shoes should i wear with it or shoes in general. I'm having an after 5 wedding this December. do you guys have any ideas or what style shoe are you wearing with your dress

I order my save the date magnets but i want to know is there anything else i should include into the envelop it self ?

Other than who is in the wedding party, what else should be added?

Does anyone have any unique program ideas. I want something special plus im doing it myself of course. Plus has anyone used any other programs other than microsoft word to format the programs as well.

To save funds , my fiance and I decide on catering our own wedding. We only have 120 guest but we need ideas for a menu. We are doing buffet style. Has anyone else have ideas or tips or how to do this.