Activity for Charmain

How do I determine a guess list when we both have large families but want a small wedding of 80 people, I don’t want to leave anyone out or hurt anyone feelings. Any suggestions

A family friend booked the same location for her wedding 1 week before mine and I just found out my husband cousin booked hers 1 month before mine. They are both in my wedding. I want to scream!!!! How do I explain to both ladies I want them out my...