Activity for michele

I'm trying to fill out the info for the party and am super confused. He asked what genre's we wanted but Im stumped on this.. Also, what is "dont's" for music? Do you have one (or more)?

Hi Ladies, I have a silly question, my hair and makeup ladies will be traveling to the ceremony as well as doing their services at my house. If they are there for half the ceremony, do they get counted as guests? I have no idea what protocol is....