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Help... Back story: FH aunt offered to do photography before we were engaged.. I had a photographer in mind already and loved their work.. I asked to see his aunts portfolio and she doesn't have one... So I went forward with the photographer I loved....

I just got engaged (dec. 15) .. my mom is turning into momzilla. She sat me down and tried to talk me into a potluck meal while photos were happening. I was able to talk her out of it but...what or how do I keep her reined in???? I don't need to be...