Activity for Antonia

My mother is 94 years old. We are trying to find a dress for her that doesn’t make her look frumpy, nor inappropriate for her age. She is under 5’ tall, but busty, hippy, and wide (takes a 12-14 dress). She would like something lace, but all the lace...

I’d love to hear what people are paying for officiants. We’re spiritual, not religious, so it need not be a church minister, but someone very capable and spiritual.