Activity for Cheshire Cat Bride

So I have narrowed it down to two venues I really liked the look of. One was a country club that has just been renovated - very modern in its look, and very pricy. The other is a room at a convention center - very well done in the room. Contemporary...

So I found my dress, but now I'm stuck with another dilemma - jewelry! I don't know if I should go for a statement piece or a simple strand of pearls. As well there is the option of something to wear in my hair (tiara, hair flower thing, headbands)...

Okay so I was curious about the time line of the buying/ordering a dress and the fittings as they go. I was told by many shops 4 months minimum for a dress to even arrive after being ordered unless rush was possible, which dropped it to two months...