Activity for Anne

I set up my mom to have access to my guestlist, but it looks like she doesn't have access to the wedding website. I wanted to let her set some of it up (ceremony / reception info, etc).

I'm newly engaged and pretty clueless. I hear I should start with venues, so... a) Does anyone have suggestions for places in the northernish half of New Jersey with that old-fashioned sort of feel? I'm thinking about 75 people. b) Once that's...