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I really want my FH's mother and my mother to wear the same or very similar outfits to my wedding. Our mothers don't have a problem with it. Is anyone else out there cray cray like me, or am I alone on this one? ☺ Let me know.

My Fiance does not want to wear a tux, nor does he wish to wear black. We are getting married mid August so it will be VERY hot out. I am cool with the men wearing suits. My brides maids will be wearing lavender knee length dresses with a plum sash...