Activity for Melody

I'm at 8500 for my micro wedding of 21 guests. I'm gagging. That feels like a lot but then I read that the average cost of a wedding is 30,000 dollars. How much have yall spent?

Is anyone doing a standing reception for their wedding? We will have only 20 guests or so, and we felt like a sit down dinner would be too formal and expensive. I found a great caterer but they offer only standing reception for micro-wedding? Is...