Activity for Miquashi

So our wedding is going to be held about 2 hours from where my fiance and I live. Currently my fiance's parents are going through harder times with talks of his mother entering hospice soon. My mother and grandmother are the two people who raised me...

So I tested out a lipstick I want to wear on my wedding day. My fiance not knowing this is what I was doing told me it was too much and was too dark/doesn't fit my skin tone. Now I'm conflicted. Suggestions? Should I just ditch the lipstick all...