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While planning for my wedding, I have found it to be very stressful, Especially because we are doing some major budget crunching. Does anybody know of some stress relievers that aren't going to cost anything? Cause so far i haven't found any and it...

Me and my fiancee have decided something for our wedding and his parents are throwing a big fit. How do we tell his parents, gently, that we are not going to change our decision?

I feel kind of awkward. I was recently engaged and I already have my ceremony venue and my officiant booked, and my dress. Is that a bad thing?