Activity for Aleasea

So I maybe invited everyone and their momma to the wedding! Lol. Is it ok to have a buffet style dinner vs seated to stay within budget? The wedding is going to be in Puerto Rico in June at La Concha resort. I'm thinking of going with a BBQ themed...

I'm super excited/ confused/ nervous I leave for San Juan, Puerto Rico for the first time to meet FH's extended family and his dad! Plus we're going to be looking at a few different venues and vendors for our reception! Not to mention our engagement...