Activity for Melissa

Ok y’all, how much are you paying for flowers? I really want lavender so I’m not choosing an expensive flower, but I want flowers on my arch/chuppah, obviously the bouquets and bouttenierres (sp?) for the bridal party (5 of each) corsages for the...

I was expecting an engagement party and a bachelorette. My mom seems to think that makes me a bridezilla. Am I crazy? Doesn’t everyone do both?

Do you think having a videographer is worth the money? Would I miss it if I didn’t have one? We’ve only planned $2500 for a wedding photographer, I don’t think we can afford both. Thoughts? Suggestions?