Activity for EandE

Ladies, I am having trouble finding my perfect pair of shoes. I am a size 10 and I have wide feet. I just doesn't seem like there are too many shoes out there that are cute and in my size. I don't have a problem wearing heels, but I was really hoping...

My FH and I have decided to have a destination wedding. I just need a little advice from ladies that have done this already or are doing it. What's the biggest downside with a DW Wedding? If you have had one, did you like it or what would you change...