Activity for Alyssa

So guys, my wife and I have decided to do an outfit change between reception and ceremony, only issue is... I haven't decided on a single dress or bridesmaid dresses. I need ideas, I'm thinking about a black and gold one and a rose gold one but I'm...

Okay, what did you ladies do with your dress, I know some buy to own and some tend to rent their dress, I'm just wondering which do you guys think is best? Also what do you guys do for bridesmaid dresses?

I need ideas on a first song to dance to. My fiance and I have received alot of suggestions but none of them really popped out at us.