Activity for Erica

So what websites can i go to where i can find ideas of how the groom should dress? Idk if he should do a bowtie or a tie, or suspenders or the waist thing, theres too much to think about. I wanyed to try and coordinate and incorperate colors to...

We are trying to be frugal and do it simple. Is it bad to have a dish to pass type thing for a backyard or hall type place reception? It can all be listed and such before hand who is bring what etc. Is that weird ? Or too cheap?

Do you invite one cousin but not another? Do you have to invite their kids? Where does it stop? Lol may i have some advice?