Activity for Nicole

I'm putting together gifts of stuff for my bridesmaids/MOH and my MOH is pregnant. I'm needing ideas that are fairly cheap, she's also not super girly. So far I've put in a candle, jewelry for the wedding, and a cup. There will be some chocolate in...

Thinking about skipping the first dance. Anyone else done that? I don't really dance and just the thought of having people's eyes on me for that dance and for the father/daughter dance makes me anxious just thinking about it