Activity for Stephanie

Anybody else out there who's FH wants to or insists on wanting to wear white to match you? Is this a current trend? Is it out of ordinary? I know the bride in white tradition began in 19th century due to the high value of the fragile white fabrics....

I really like the tree wedding guest book idea, but my cousin had that at her wedding last year. I know the way my dad's side of the family is and for sure they will talk if I have the same thing so I'm looking for other ideas. What are you doing for...