Activity for Alicia

I am still clueless about what colors to use! My FH is dying to have a black, white, and red wedding, however I am not so thrilled with the red idea. It seems like every wedding that I have been to has been black, white, and red. I was thinking that...

Ok, so I am in love with these candelabras and with this flower bowl but...... I can't find either one of these things anywhere!!! I have not even been able to find anything close to this! Does anyone have any ideas?! I love this style, but I am open...