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Few more days until my wedding! What's a kissable lipstick (preferably something I can get at a dept/drug store) that won't come off as I kiss my groom?

I'm on a very tight budget and cannot afford a band/dj, so we're planning on using an mp3 player with prerecorded dance music. Any suggestions? Do you know if there are CDs that we could probably purchase that have a good mix of fast & slow song...