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I am having a rather large wedding (225-250 ppl) the ceremony and reception are in the same location. I was wondering how any ushers are needed? Are they needed at all?

I am planning on now to send out my save-the-date for my upcoming December 2014 wedding. With trying to keep cost down as much as possible I am now thinking if a save-the-date is needed. Do you think word-of-mouth will suffice until the formal...

Has anyone ever been to one? What to expect? I am going to one for Vera Wang in San Francisco next week and wondering if they give discounts?

Has anyone ever done one? Can you recommend websites.

I am trying to figure out stuff to do at a bridal shower. Even though my mom and bridesmaids are throwing me the shower. What are some fun but not boring games, things, ideas and stuff to do?

My venue has a nice sitting and smoking area directly outside of my ballroom. Has anyone used a cigar roller for their event or plan to and can recommend someone in the NY/Philly/NYC area?