Activity for Jennifer

Has anyone had their wedding at The Manor in West Orange? I am asking because I am confused how the band/dj set up in the cocktail area to play music into the reception hall. The manager explained the music sounds fine and having 2 dance floors is...

Anyone know of some places in NY (preferably outside of the city) where you can BYO alcohol? I looking to have 200 - 300 guests and love the castle idea!!!