Activity for Jess A

I need some ideas for my send-off. It will be at night so it needs to be something that glows. I do not want to do sparklers because it seems like everyone is doing that. And go.

My BM's are wearing the same color dresses. Will it look weird if they have different hair styles and different shoes? The shoes are not that much of a concern because the dress is long. Also there are only 2 BM's. my hair will be all up. Just...