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I've decide to save money by making my wedding non traditional. But I can't find reasonable venue. I wish I could rent someone back yard, or had a friend to video tape the ceremony, or just hit the lottery but still no look. Can u ladies throw ideas...

Me and fh is feeling stuck because we are on a tight budget. We havent found a reception hall yet at a reasonable price. I wish I had a rabbits foot cause I really need a miracle. We don't think it's appropriate to ask our parents for help. Good...

I live in Philadelphia and want to DIY reception but can't find a regular rental hall at a reasonable price. Please help me fellow brides to be. Give me any ideas , advice or information