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We have more bridesmaid than Groomsmen is that ok? Do anybody have pic of someone wedding like this?

We don't have a clue about what to serve at our buffet style reception any idea would be greatly appreciated

I really need help picking wedding colors. I have white & silver but I also would like another color that will give it the WOW factor,but not any purples. My wedding is in Aug.