Activity for Peony

so im having a hard time deciding a hair style.... heres a pic of my dress and what i was thinking of doing for my hair...any thoughts welcomed!!!!

Idk what to do! i think iwant an up-do in the ceremony and then let it down for the reception... My fh loves me with a short cut but idk/ my mother is a stylist so i dont have to worry about changing it because she will definitely do it for me......

What kind of photography style do you like? I really, really like the soft and light kind (third row). My second choice would be traditional (top row). The soft and light photographers are the most expensive though see full size....