Activity for iris

I am having a small wedding next year should i cut my list down some without hurting people feeling please give me advice.

I know my engagement party is next august any ideas for food? it will be small but i want to make sure my guest is being fed.

Me and my FH want to have our engagement party at a buffet is it tacky to have them pay for their food or should i invite those who i am close to.? i hope i am not being crazy.

I was planning my engagement party for next month do you think it is too early to have a engagement party. but started inviting people should i just have a party anyway so they won't get mad that i invited them. ps i hope this question is not stupid....

Do you think it is tacky to share your engagement party with another couple?

My name is iris and i have limit space in my house without hurting some members of my family feeling how can i uninvite them to the party the reason why i don't want this person coming because she acts a fool plus i am scared she will bring her...

Hi my name is iris and i am getting married august 31st 2013 is it too soon to start saving and planning or should we wait til 2012 to start planning and saving?