Activity for Lisa

Not sure what I should choose for our HM. We are looking into St. Lucia or Jamaica.

Which Sandals resort should I go to? I want adventure: *zipline *waterfalls *horseback riding *volcano? What are the pros and cons of sandals?? Please help!

I do NOT want to stay at an all inclusive hotel in Punta Cana, DR. Any suggestions of a great place to stay?

I would love to go to Tahiti but we do not have much time to fly out there. Is there anything with clear water, white sands, and waterfalls in the Caribbean or South America?