Activity for Sheila

Im guessing my best bet is to buy the "Wedding planning for Dummies" book, but I thought Id just ask you amazing ladies since you have such great advice and are a big help. Questions... 1. Who pays for the BM dresses, hair and accessories? Same with...

Havent been to many weddings, Im on a 15k budget.. I dont know where to start.. I dont even know if I should have a Engagement party, What a bridal party is, Im about to just go to the courts.. So stressed and worried that my day will be ruined...